The Pin and The Rubber Band of Happiness

The Pin and The Rubber Band of Happiness

What if I told you that the human pursuit of happiness is absolutely futile? That how happy or unhappy you are right now is dictated not by some objective measure, but rather the result of brain chemistry dictated by your genes? That evolution saw it fit to make us...
Learn How to Finish and When to Move On

Learn How to Finish and When to Move On

“Learn how to finish” is among the best pieces of advice anyone can give you, right next to, “Done is better than perfect.” A realized prototype full of flaws is ten times better than a flawless concept endlessly debated. Only when you can see something tangible can...
A Work In Progress is the Death of an Idea

A Work In Progress is the Death of an Idea

I started collecting my ideas when I was about fourteen. Back then, I had enough energy to think that if I didn’t write something down, I might forget it. This was important because The Plan was to make everything happen.  So, I collected ideas for books,...
7 Cardinal Sins of Bad Writing

7 Cardinal Sins of Bad Writing

In real life, people listen to you talk because they like you—or because you tell great stories, but that’s kind of one and the same. When you have the ear of someone who enjoys your company, they nod a lot, ask all the right questions, and keep giving you signals...
Photography, the Exercise in Paying Attention

Photography, the Exercise in Paying Attention

They say a writer is someone on whom nothing is lost. No wonder. Writing is paying attention. To people mostly, but also the world at large and your own inner life. I recently discovered that photography could be all those things too. Maybe more. It calms me to take...
Look After Your Loved Ones

Look After Your Loved Ones

The problems I have in life cannot be solved with money. The cost of Edyta’s cancer treatment is covered by German public healthcare. She’s staying in Charité, one of the world’s top hospitals, her ward under the direction of the world’s leading experts in treating...